Being Kind To Ourself

Every Wednesday I go to a men's bible study.

It is a good time to share and see where we 

improve in our relationship with God and 

others. 

I realize that we are our worst critic. 

We all have areas of our lives that 

can improve however we think less of
us then we aught too. 

Positive is we do know know that 

there are areas to improve and sharing

our struggles is a good spot to start.

We should write down our struggles 

then later read them to see where

were at.

May you have a good day and see

how you do. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Being Consistent

A very important part of our life

purpose is to be consistent.

Our gifts and talents maybe used

differently every day as part of our 

calling. Being consistent has to do

with being consistent and available.

Those we spend more time with 

play a role in our purpose as we

do there's.  It depends on the role

they play in our lives.  

Those we meet for the first and

maybe the only time we have a

role to play too.  Our character

and how how we act around others

will decide what our affect will be

in their lives. The same goes for

theirs.  ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Having Rain

In recent years we haven't had much rain

in May.  This year we have had some. 

It is a good thing before the summer 

comes so the grass will stay green.

This shows fresh life too. It allows 

a refreshing life.

May you be blessed the remaining 

of this week. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Living Peace

As this is the week to remember our

loved ones and to conquer the world 

in the negative ways we sometimes 

think as normal it is going to have

peace at the same time in our hearts.

Peace can overcome the tough times

when they come along. This comes

with faith and love.

It is good to know it isn't always 

about us either. Our lives are

surrounded by others. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Walking the Narrow Road

I believe I have written about this 

before however this a good way to 

go.

It is so important to walk the

narrow road and not like everyone 

one else. 

The world prefers the wide road.

We sometimes do as well. It is

what we know. It is what our

nature knows.

The narrow road makes more sense.

It is the road God design us to take.

Again it isn't the easy road to take 

or more of us would take it.

When I was 16 I was on a hike

and I beat ahead of others. I

decided to take a trail that I 

thought was short and better.

It turned out I got lost even if

it was short which I have no

idea to this day. I ended up

being gone for about 24 hours.

I saw plans that I knew were 

looking for me. I knew to that 

they couldn't see me and maybe 

they would eventually find me.

I ended seeing a river and followed

it down figuring I would find the

ranger station which I did. I said 

that I think I am the one you are 

looking for. I have never been

lost on a hike again.

So let's take the narrow road 

more times than not.  ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Conquer the World

It seems here in United States anyway 

that since covid a lot written on social 

media about politics that we shouldn't 

have a choice.

A lot of that came with restrictions 

and many rebelled at least by what

they said because in United States 

we have freedoms.

My mother past away just before 

restrictions were put on so it really 

wasn't that important to me other 

than it would have been nice to see

people except by social distancing.

I am sure if you read my posts than

you see what I said. 

Anyway it is important to conquer 

the world in our minds anyway.

Not let negative mind sets get in

the way. This includes our selfish

ways. 

Here in United States it is Memorial 

Day holiday. This is us remembering 

those who fought and died in wars.

People remember their loved ones

as well who are no longer with us 

Please celebrate with us. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Enjoying Life

We know life isn't always good.

In fact it can be bad at times.

I think we can enjoy life at times to. 

Helping others can be be rewarding. 

I was able to speak to a young 

woman who lost her grandmother 

unexpectedly.

I met her know what I went through 

through losing my mother when 

she passed away right at the beginning 

of covid. She was so thankful what

I shared. I spoke about a woman

who lost her husband about three 

Years ago unexpectedly.

I let her know not to let anyone 

discourage her about how long

grieving is supposed to be.  For

everyone the process and timing

is different for each person.

This what we can in many parts

of life.  When things get tough 

take it at your own pace. Hopefully 

life will feel better and on track

once again. Writing things down

whether positive or negative can

help to. 

For me writing this blog is therapeutic 

too. May you have a good or even 

a great day. We put things back in 

order.  ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Who We Have Become

We look back into our past life

we would never know who we

would become. 

Our purpose will happen even

before we would know we have

one unless someone told us

before or we discover it. 

The older we get the stronger 

our purpose becomes. Things

might get in the way like out

health however if we persist

it will happen or continue.

May your purpose be strong 

and you have a wonderful day.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Stepping Forward

A major player for us is stepping 

forward.

Often when we figure out our

purpose when we pursue it 

we might be taking someone 

elses place. 

Our uniqueness we may do it 

differently however a place 

has been voided.

Someone might be calling 

out that they need a friend

or companionship or mentor.

We can be one of all three.

May your day be good however

it looks. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

You Are For Someone

There is someone if not several 

that we are meant to share our

purpose and story too.

Last Friday at a church home 

group we each shared a part

of our life story since we only

had five minutes or so to do.

Weesrned more about each 

other though we knew some

about one another. I know

some longer than others.

One of the women before 

she came to the church 

we sometimes would see

each other while walking

on the waterfront. She and 

a friend of hers would run

with their dogs. We most

would wave and say hello.

On an occasion we would 

chat for a moment or two.

When she came to church 

Zwe said hi we know each 

other from the waterfront.

I have gotten to know about

her family. 

It is these little gatherings 

that can bring people together 

in different ways. We had a 

few friends at church that 

both of us knew before she

came. I think one of them

invited her. 

The hosts of the group came

to the church when they were

invited from another church

home group. We invite others

from outside the church too. 

May your day be bright and

joyful as you live your life.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

In Our Strength

Often we do things in our own strength.

Part of that is your gifts and gifts.

We can get comfortable doing our purpose 

however God wants us to rely on him too.

It is easy to do this over and over again

since we have the gifts and talents to

do it. We rely on God we can even do more.

We can be surprised what change in

other lives and ours to if we ask him

how to help them. We might know by

our gifts and knowledge but it is going

to a whole another level. It can take

our life to more joy and faith. 

Try doing it to see what happens.

May your life get more exciting.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Focus On Others

Since life can get tough sometimes is

nice to focus on others. It is so easy

to get depressed when things aren't 

going right in our lives 

Knowing that others maybe struggling to 

we can help them and get our minds

off of ours. 

I know in the United States when we 

are asked how we are doing we reply

good even though it might not be true.

Let's respond by saying not so good.

This is what is going on.

.sy your day be good despite any troubled

and let others know how important to us.

We might get a good hug and smile.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Life Can Be A Joy

It is so easy sometimes to go us on the 

negative when we have problems. 

It is a joy when we know have a purpose 

and we are not just hanging out each day.

It does take faith, hope and love to get

through it all. 

Having hobbies and activities are good

as well. We should never take them

foregranted just as out grifts and talents.

I me a little girl with her mother at the

coffee shop. I told her how cute she

is. She said thank you. I hope years

ahead she remembers it.  ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️