In Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians in the thirteenth chapter beginning with the first verse he says if I speak in the tongues of men or of angels but does not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. (NIV)
Paul continues about prophecy, or mysteries, knowledge, faith or give all I have to the poor without love it doesn’t mean a thing.
So whatever we do in purpose or the gifts we are given without love they have no value. We must have love as the center point of it all.
In verses four through seven in the same chapter he describes what love is. Basically all things will end someday except love will continue. We will be remembered by our love for others and not all of our accomplishments.
Whether you agree or not with others or tell them your opinion without love, they are only words on a paper.