Monday, May 8, 2023

Men in Their Role and Purpose

The role and purpose  for men hasn't 
changed a lot depending on the culture 
or country. 

Men are expected  to  be  the primary 
financial  supporter for the family. 
The wife may either  decide to stay home
and raise the family along with the responsibility 
of the home or go  back to work after short
period with child.

In United  States  and  Canada  along with 
other countries both wife and husband if
desirable  can leave work for a period of
time generally  six months to a year depending 
on the rules in their countries. The wife would
take her leave before  the  child is born and
the husband may when her leave is over if
she desires to back to work.

During 2020 with covid-19 the couples could
take care of their children  since many either
couldn't work at the beginning because  they 
we're not considered essential  workers. When
work  was allowed  again many but not all could
work from home.  Depending  on the job some
can still  work  from home. Of course the same
period  the children were home to with school 
being online which was a hard time too. For most
the one or two years was a financial  burden too.
I  am  sure  most couples learned  more about 
each other and get through the pandemic together.
Some even moved closer to family and changed 
jobs too.

For young people  who are not married and are
not engaged yet my suggestion would be able 
to save some money in the process so the
burden is lighter when you do marry. Also a 
good suggestion  for those who  are engaged 
or are married  but no children yet.

Today instead  of  the  burden  of  the  man to
have to work only is somewhat lifted with women
working it is important to know how to manage
the home. The wife still her major responsibility 
however the man needs to  share though might
not be easy depending on his workload. Also,
it isn't  what Men are accustomed too.

Our purpose  is  beyond  our family  as well. You
may be a mentor  to  others. This area is important 
to though how much time spending on it is as well.
For either  the  husband and wife the time together 
with each other  and family is essential.  Do not
neglect  your time together this is your number
one purpose for a period of time. When your older
and the children are  to you will be able your wings
more. I hope this all good advice. ❤️❤️❤️

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