Motivation!

When it comes to our purpose and destiny we have to check in on what our motivation is. What I mean are we doing this with the right motives or not. I expect that most of us are using the right motive however we could go the other way because we feel this is our purpose and destiny so that is why I am doing what I am doing.

The whole thing about our motives is that we need to check on them on a regular basis. I find that there are those who mean well doing what they are doing however they are using the same formula over and over again so at some point the motives could become wrong. When I talk with people to see how they are doing and how I can help them I try not to do it the same way all the time. Since each person is an individual we have to treat them that way as well.

Another question we have to answer as well is the motivation of the people we try to help as well. We have to remember at some degree or another we are all selfish so they can have the wrong motives as well. Although we want to help them change we must realize that most likely they have asked for help from others as well. In fact they may have asked many times over and are looking to see what they can get out of us like the previous people. I am not saying this all to make us feel paranoid or checking our motives all the time. I believe we should check ourselves out once in a while. This is especially true when things seem to go along too smoothly. Another thing we have to question when things seem to be off with the other person we are dealing with. I am not necessarily saying to them but to us.

We all know about scams whether on the internet or over the phone that we have to be aware of. This can be the same for those who we may deal with on a daily basis. There are possibilities that people who are looking to us for help they could be after scamming us. If you have met any of their friends it would be a good idea to talk with them as well along with family members. We have to watch there to because they could be part of the scam as well. Although we want to be compassionate there are those who want to take advantage of that as well. Keep your ears and eyes open to what is going on. Most of all it is the experience that you have had before that will decide whether to continue a relationship with them or not. So end here with checking out motives on both sides. On yours and on theirs.