myself with as many people as possible.
I am almost sure sharing ourselves a lot
of that has to do with the culture you live
in.
I am sure some if not many of you come
from a different culture than mine. You
may look at your purpose different than
I do.
In the United States we live a lot to do
with independence. Here in Washington
state we probably do more than any place
else.
I live in in a small town so how we live
is different than the big city like Seattle.
Small towns generally more layed back
then a city like Seattle. When I go to Seattle
which isn't often I feel as though I am in
another country. It doesn't mean it is bad
just different.
I was taught by my parents to be independent.
That can be good or bad depending on who you
are. I like being around people so being independent
in my mind isn't always good. Growing up
in the small town I could go anywhere I wanted.
The town now is more than twice as big though
still small compared to many other places.
These days parents wouldn't allow their children
to go anywhere they wanted like in my day. I
pretty much went to the same places. I didn't
go out of the neighborhood much except going
to school. We didn't have buses so I had to walk
most everywhere I wanted to go.
Though independence still runs in me to some degree
I enjoy seeing other people as much as possible. I
don't want to keep to myself that much. When I am
by myself sometimes drives me crazy or I feel lonely.
Not all the time but more than what I want to be.
The who thing about sharing ourselves with others
besides the culture we live in is how vulnerable we want
to be. I know a woman in one of my church home groups
knows her life purpose is to care for others, however
she finds it to be vulnerable to share her life with others.
She admits she enjoys being alone with herself and
her husband.
Often being vulnerable means you might get hurt
and people don't like that. Still important to be
vulnerable even if it is to a small selected group.
This is where healing can happen. Amen! ❤️❤️❤️
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