To be truly who we
are meant to be we have to decide on self-improvement and another area is be
content. I know this is an area where I can use improvement in. I have to say
being content equals being happy. Like other areas in our lives we have to
decide that we will be content. It is nothing that will be handed to us.
If you are having
problems being content the solution could be in changing your lifestyle or tweaking
it a little bit. The problem is not in the lifestyle it most likely is that you
don’t fit in the particular lifestyle. Not everyone does well in some of the
life styles so best to find the one that fits you the best.
Personally I am in
easy going middle of the road lifestyle. I grew up in middle class of Gig
Harbor at the time. My neighborhood is now very high middleclass or rich
whatever way you want to call it. My family was not rich my dad owning a
drapery business that had its ups and downs along with my mother being a high
school teacher however we did live on the waterfront with several sailboats of
different sizes and a couple row boats as well. No matter the state of our
family income we never had to worry about going hungry. My neighborhood friends
a few had boats to and some did not. Most of them were middle class as well though I never thought about
whether anyone was richer than our family or not. I played organized baseball
and basketball growing up with tennis on occasion. My friends and I played
football at the local park on the grass field during our junior high years.
Although life was not always happy for me I would say that I was content most
of the time like many of the other kids in the neighborhood.
My life hasn’t changed
a lot as an adult other than I don’t live on the waterfront and no boats. I
generally spend money on things that I enjoy. I have to say that I am content
most of the time though like everyone I can use improvement. The area I have
the most trouble in is being single and having no family of my own. I find it
hard to live a life that my heart really desires so I am not very content in
that area of my life. I hope someday that this part of my life will change
however I know that being content in all areas will make life a lot better off.
So you see I have to
work on being content as well. I figure that I have to block out the areas that
I struggle in especially being single. Knowing that I do have something to
offer the world despite not being in a place I would like to be in. I realize
it is important to keep my focus in the right place. Having a wife and family I
hope does come but for now keep moving on in my life. If I don’t think about it
as much as I have been than I hope it will happen. The most important thing
about being content is not to worry about things especially those that have to
do with your lifestyle. Enjoy what you have and move on in your purpose.
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