Over the centuries women have
been abused in many cultures
being like slaves or maybe worse.
Women have the same capabilities
as men though not always given
the opportunities.
Each culture today leadership has a
different meaning between men and
women. Some cultures women may
have great opportunities while others
none and still abused.
Fortunately in Western culture many
women have opportunities to succeed.
I would say in the work place then the
home. Of course, there is still a ways
to go.
Growing up my father was a business
owner and my mother a teacher and coach.
Mother for the most part in charge of the
finances. Prior to teaching she worked
as a teller in a bank she knew how to reconcile
bank statements. I think to dad had enough
dealing with finances of work he had no
problem leaving it to mom at home.
As a kid I didn't know what was going on
finances. All I knew I had three meals a day
and clothing as well. I am sure with larger
expendures there were discussions between
mom and dad.
When I was 12 the family took a trip during
the summer across Canada and eastern USA.
Mom and dad purchased a tent trailer for us
to travel and live in. I am sure they had hours
of discussion before purchasing the tent trailer.
I am sure dad made sure the car was in shape
for the trip.
Mom did more than half of the driving on the
trip as dad had to fly back to get back to work.
Quite an ordeal with three boys. Mom certainly
showed off her talent and leadership. Our sister
Barb a college student at the time joined us in
Montreal and her mother as well. We did our jobs
the boys putting up and down the tent trailer
each day we traveled. I am sure you understand
it was a lifetime trip for us. We met family and
mother's friends along the way. Mom grew up
in Canada.
I am not sure how Mom actually did it but certainly
showed her leadership skills. While going from
Nova Scotia to catch a ferry to Maine the car had
all four tires go flat and not at the same time I recall.
I know us boys were no help in changing flat tires
and grandmother was almost 90. Though I am sure
our sister helped though I don't recall. I am not sure
how it happened we still caught the ferry. Mom
obviously kept a level head.
This shows leadership comes in different packages.
In a marriage each have to do their part to make it work.